Here we go again... I'll try not to rant but I'm not
making any promises. I started studying Wicca BEFORE it was cool. I've been a practicing Wiccan/Pagan for more than twenty
years. I've studied many of the older traditions, which isn't the trend now.
I've been criticized for being a solitary practitioner who does things the way I like but since
I'm a solitary practitioner I have to wonder why anyone but me was watching anyway. I'd have charged admission if I'd known
I had an audience.
One thing I've noticed in the Craft is that male homosexuals are criticized less and less for
being sodomites but heterosexual females are criticized more and more when this is supposed to be a PERSONAL decision. I have
been openly criticized for being a sodomite and NOT being a lesbian or for being one.
It's stated plainly in "The Charge of the Star Goddess" that ALL acts of love and pleasure
are her domain and this includes sodomy. It includes sodomy for males and it needs to for females.
There is also a rule in the Craft that states that whatever happens in a bower between CONSENTING
adults is only their business, which makes me wonder who was immaturely violating my privacy in a bower. I don't advertise
that I'm a sodomite but I don't deny it either. Who immaturely told or was watching? I'm going to start charging an admission
fee. There are obviously sexual acts that some of you are NOT mature enough to watch or participate in.
I adhere to the belief that if I enjoy it then I may just find a way to do it. An it harm none...
If I'm not harmed and my partner isn't then there should be no complaints from the unpaying audience. The whole coven or circle
isn't necessarily supposed to be watching anyway. I'm a solitary practitioner so the coven is smaller than usual anyway.
Elders of the Craft should have better manners than to violate my privacy anyway and I'd like
to know why you don't. I'm an elder of the Craft now myself whether some of you like it or not. I don't immaturely demand
that others commit sodomy just because I do but if I ever found a coven maybe it should be a coven rule that all initiates
have to maturely explore their sexuality by committing sodomy during initiation. You're not going to like that opinion but
I don't care.
There are MANY solitary practitioners of Wicca wandering around because you're snobs and I
am one of them like Raymond Buckland. You have an elitest mentality
that says that you know little but you want everybody to think you know it all. Many of you know nothing
about sodomy but you'll certainly run out and immaturely condemn anyone who does. I could tell you which part of my anatomy
to kiss but you'd never find it.
How you expect to grow and become a better person without learning and trying new things remains
an unsolvable mystery to all of us. Wicca stopped being about your immature parties when I decided to remain a solitary practitioner
and it started to be about something better and there are those who agree with me.
I was taught that Wicca is about more than the parties it is famous for so where is the more?
The more of Wicca is found at your local library, bookstore, debating with friends on the Internet, petting your precocious
cat and many places where Wiccans who practice in covens say that it isn't. My cat is a lovable barrel of laughs. If I don't
think of it then she does.
Wicca isn't just about group activities but about personal growth and happiness. I'm a solitary
practitioner so you have no right to tell me how to practice and that's a rule of the Craft. You know what you can kiss and
it isn't your spouse. I'm 44 years old and I've been a practicing Witch/Pagan since I was 6 and I thought of it myself.
Immaturely demanding that I satisfy my lust in a particular manner won't win you my adoration in a large hurry because my
lust is about me and NOT about you.
I'm maturely drawing a line in the sand that you cross at your own peril and I'm not the first
to do so. Ask Ray Buckland. I'm using much of the protective Witchcraft I have listed on this site. I got one spell from Ray
Buckland that I call the "Screw You" spell aka Protective Witches' Bottle. You tell me if they work.
Author: F. Holiday
